“I wish there was something like this when I started. It is incredibly helpful and you should continue with creating content.”Matt
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She asked me out,
I didn’t have to.
She was the one who said, “you up for dessert tomorrow?”
I didn’t have to chase, persuade or convince her to go on a date with me. She wanted to, because I showed her on text why I was worth asking out. This free guide teaches you how.
- How to start the conversation strong and create a fast connection
- How to get her thinking about the date before the conversation even gets there
- How to flirt and get her flirting back easily
- How to make her ask you out instead
- Discover the 3 simple rules for every successful interaction
- Discover the game-plan that makes your date a great one
- Tap into the successful and healthy dating mindsets to improve your dating life
- Real life conversation that shows you how to go from match to date
What’s inside
Three steps.
One game-plan.
Most conversations on a dating app are information exchanges. You say something about you, she says something about her. You never actually connect. The Affinity Method helps you connect with her, so she feels like she can emotionally relate. Here’s how it breaks down:
Step 01
Quick Rapport
Build the connection fast while being playful, the kind that gets her saying yes over and over. Chemistry is really just a series of yeses. Stack a few, the vibe turns warm, and she’ll naturally want a date. We all want someone who understands us.
Step 02
Foreshadow
You don’t ask for the date. You paint a picture of it, a place and a thing you’d do together, then let her imagination fill in the rest. Done well, she starts fantasizing about what could happen.
Step 03
Flirt Well
Create sexual tension, without spelling it out. Women love flirting too. Do it great, and she’ll anticipate the date. And then when you meet her, do the exact same in person. But this time, with eye contact and your presence.
The rule
Have fun always
Dating is tough. Don’t make it difficult for yourself by refusing to have fun. Get into the mindset of being unserious. Self amuse, even. Float a mischievous suggestion. Show your wit. Forget about “getting to know each other” right off the bat. Play first.
Real conversations
What it looks like in practice.
That date wasn’t a fluke. Between June 2021 and June 2023 I logged over 230 matches, and the same pattern runs through roughly three-quarters of them. These are real screenshots from those conversations. The guide breaks down exactly what’s happening in each one.
Students
What men say after using it.
“Now we’re cooking and we’re discussing first date things already. All thanks to you, my man!”Kai
“Man, I haven’t finished reading, but it’s good stuff. There isn’t such material like it on the market. It deals in the practical, testable stuff. Guys can put it to good use right away.”Noah
“This would definitely be value for money. Could even sell this as a standalone.”Connor
“Just read your whole report. Fuck your text game is next level.”Luke
What You May Achieve with the Affinity Method (Our students have done these)
- Getting a date for the first time from online dating, just simply by changing the way you message,
- Getting 5 dates in 7 days, 2 on the same day,
- Having your Tinder matches chase to meet you,
- Having women look forward to seeing you for a second date,
- Dating 3 women and more at once,
- Making women fall in love with you,
- Getting your first girlfriend,
- Finding yourself a very beautiful and exclusive girlfriend.
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She could be asking you out tomorrow.
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