"Fuck, it pisses me off that you are absolutely right. I just come off as seeming desperate and needy if I always push for the meet. After you mentioned it, I don't even know why I am still 'tipping my toes in and testing the water' when I know she is somewhat keen already."Pete
Student Results
What men say.
From forum posts in 2014 to coaching sessions this year. Across six continents, seven languages, and every major dating app.
(All names have been changed to protect their privacy.)
What men say on online forums about Jiron's advice.
From forum posts and group chats, 2014–2016. Unedited.
"This is awesome advice, tbh the reason she got into me in the first place was because I didnt worry about looking needy. I actually saw a huge improvement in our chemistry when I was just myself and had fun rather than trying to be cool or use certain techniques..."Aaron
"Write a fuckin book man. Come on. Or a blog. Do it."Victor
"He's the real deal, especially for helping us out for free."Simon
"Jiron is dead on and I find myself agreeing with him pretty much all the time."Grant
"Jiron, thanks for the tip for the 'tricking'. I just said 'lets discuss them over whatsapp' and she gave me her number"Rob
"im new to the forum as member but not new reading it. i use to find your comments and i like too much the way you view the seduction and how to interact with women."Diego
"I could offer more polarizing versions of what I wanna say, but when I read Jiron's advice, I feel emasculated haha"Tyler
More from students.
"Aha moment for me. Once I wrote a profile based on story bytes and core values that I live by, I started getting more responses from girls. It proves that your lessons work."Chris
"I wish there was something like this when I started. It is incredibly helpful and you should continue creating content."Matt
"Really learnt a lot, and I've never seen this stuff being taught anywhere else before."Luke
"Now we're cooking and we're discussing first date things already. All thanks to you, my man."Kai
"This is some really solid advice, I'll try my best to put it into action. I've got daddy issues, and this is some of the most fatherly advice I've gotten in my life. Who knew you had to be taught how to be a man?"Leo
"Highkey consistently some of the best advice I've seen in a public game chat."Noah
"You are saving lives. Yes, as I listen to advice like yours more, I learn and see the changes. So thank you very much!"Will
"I like your style. Seems like you always have fun and it's super effective. That's how I am in person — but for some reason I have a mental disconnect when it comes to texting. Working on it."Jake
"Your input is always spot on and helpful."Owen
"I think your approach is better than what I had planned. It's good to have a different perspective on the subject."Ethan
"You're the man, Jiron! Thanks."Connor
"I love reading your posts and the sound advice you kindly share. Your input is consistently some of the best I've come across."Adam
"Jiron, the king — just saw your screenshots, slaying it man. I even wrote down two different Tinder openers just from that conversation."Zach
"if i get a fucking back ache tml, it's all Jiron's stupid ebook's fault. EVIL STUFF DON'T USE IT"Wade · Facebook, 2011
"Your verbal game looks epic, natural free, habitually ballsy and fun. Is this more of a reflection of your character or is there anything I can do to develop this mindset?"Liam
"I'm gonna have to study your screenshots more times. Your style is really good, damn positivity fun and attractive. Damn I gotta learn that."Finn
The results.
Most romantic date of her life
"Girl told me it was 'fantastic' and 'the most romantic date of her life'. She's the fourth girl in a week to start saying things like 'who are you?' and 'wow you're something' at the mid point of the date."Marcus
Long-term relationship
"Could not have done it without you."Ryan
Number in 14 minutes
"Wow just got a girl's number in 14 minutes. Thanks man. Your credit."Tom
Date set the same week
"Pretty good — set myself a date next week using what I learnt."Daniel
Better than a bootcamp
"I've learnt more from this than any bootcamp people have attended. I encourage Jiron to keep sharing his knowledge because a lot of information out there is so confusing."Ben
4 responses in one day
"I get four response today in one day. Wow although I trying to improve my texting game. Practice and repetition with the end in mind"Nico
Two dates in two days
"Thanks! It feels good, can't lie"Pat
6 dates in one week
"Dates this week —Eric
Tuesday 6:00
Thursday 6:00
Friday 3:30
Friday 7:30
Saturday — 6:00ish
Sunday — TBD
Might even back out of the Sunday one lmao, she's cute but not much in common and it's a drive"
Another date rolls in mid-message
"Four other dates* another home date rolled in on Bumble 5 minutes ago"Sam
AlexPrior to meeting Jiron, I had little interest and even less trust in any 'coach'. The idea didn't sit well with my ego. I was afraid my money would be taken, and in return I'd only be given empty platitudes like 'get out of your comfort zone'. I rationalised I could do it all alone.
In that vein I sought support groups, where I found Jiron to be constantly giving great advice free of charge. Eventually I found myself waiting for him to come online to ask for advice.
Although you are engaging in the services of a professional, you'll also find a mentor and a guide, truly. Many aspects of the mentoring extend beyond the realm of dating. I've seen a psychologist before and they offered advice on how to manage symptoms of social anxiety, where Jiron's advice focused on the core of the issue. Breathing techniques are helpful, but conversation skills produce a positive feedback loop that improved my confidence.
I strongly suggest you go for it.
MichaelWhen it comes to online dating, it's not so often that you can find a mentor with the actual expertise to pass on the right mindset and nuances of texting.
When it comes to your own conversations, his advice is on another level of precision. He carefully takes into consideration the context of each conversation and sharply pinpoints what can be improved, without resorting to any canned statements. He promptly replies to your questions, showing a notable level of commitment to his students. And also, loads of patience.
After a short time working with him, I could already sense a big difference in how I approach text game.
SamI've been working with him since summer, and I credit him with helping me get plenty of dates I could have clinched if I hadn't personally fumbled the ball.
I've previously done programs with others, and Jiron's coaching is my favourite experience so far. You really can't match the microscopic level of help he offers, and the principles he operates from aren't things I've seen talked about in near as much detail anywhere else.
In particular, I feel much more human relying on tools like 'togetherness' than power moves and provocation, and I get better results.
JamesOne thing Jiron always advised was to create togetherness and using that, it helped me create a smooth conversation with my match as well as keep her hooked. My Bumble chat with this one girl led me to getting her number, at the fastest pace in my history of online dating.
As of now, our first date has already been planned for next weekend and while waiting, there are equal efforts from both sides to keep each other entertained. She has already started sharing her everyday routine pictures such as her lunch, her commute home and etc which is a great hint that she is into me as specifically wants me to have multiple glimpses into her life.
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